We all have giants.
Some are obvious: Financial pressure, health concerns, business uncertainty.
Others are quieter: Tension at home. A drifting relationship. A teenager who won’t talk. The quiet sense that you’re capable of more but unsure how to move forward.
The giants themselves aren’t new. What is often overlooked is the hidden cost of how we face them. Because while the battle may be unavoidable, fighting it alone is not. We admire independence. We respect endurance. But endurance without perspective can quietly become isolation.
Even the Lone Ranger had Tonto. Every elite athlete has a coach. Every championship team has assistants and advisors. Every thriving business has mentors and strategic partners.
Nothing substantial in life or business is built alone.
Isolation doesn’t shrink giants, it enlarges them. When you stop inviting perspective, your thinking narrows. When you avoid hard conversations, tension compounds. When you protect your image instead of pursuing growth, progress stalls.
The hidden cost shows up slowly — in relationships that drift, decisions made without counsel, pressure carried silently.
Strong families aren’t built by perfect parents; they’re built by parents willing to grow.
Strong leaders seek clarity early; they invite accountability. They surround themselves with people who will tell them the truth.
Sometimes courage isn’t dramatic; it’s scheduling the conversation you’ve been
postponing. It’s asking for perspective before things unravel.
The real danger isn’t that you have giants. We all do. The real danger is paying the hidden cost of isolation by believing you’re supposed to shoulder everything alone. Because the strongest families, the healthiest leaders, and the most resilient individuals all share something in common: They don’t fight alone.
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Dave Reben is the founder of Strong and Courageous Coaching and lives in Provo, Utah.
Submitted by Dave Reben
